How do couples select a threesome? Amsterdam

Julietta
10/08/16
I'm curious how the selection of a threesome works for a long term couple. Do both partners in the couple have to like a lot the 3rd person? Or one of the partners mainly focuses on the extra person (specially if it's a heterosexual couple)?
Also, is it usual that the same threesome is repeated? Or a threesome is normally an one-off experience? 

5 replies

  • MalaMi
    10/08/16
    Hey,

    1. Do both partners in the couple have to like a lot the 3rd person?

    Yes, I think by picking the 3 person ( doesn't matter if it is M or F) it's important that me and my partner will like the person psychical and mentally.

    2. Or one of the partners mainly focuses on the extra person (espesially if it's a heterosexual couple)?

    Think it depend's of expectations or agreed on role play

    3. is it usual that the same threesome is repeated?

    Me and my partner try to not repeat the threesome more than 5 times with the same person.
    It's the rule . I think more times can make complication in the long run.



  • Tinderella
    11/08/16
    As to me, the physical connection matters quite a lot, but it does not mean that's the only thing I'm considering. If my partner and I feel good about the conversation we're having with a person, we're good to go. I've never repeated yet, but I wouldn't mind. I consider it a very casual thing.
  • Julietta
    11/08/16
    Thank you guys
  • Jacno
    11/08/16
    Once I met a couple. Their flow was that they loved hunting on weekends for a third person threesome partner. They were kinda cute and honest. That was their thing. We met randomly at the club, they just shared their story after a dance and proposed what they wanted to propose
     
    Honesty and simplicity sounds like the best !
  • GiGio
    10/10/16
    That is an interesting article on the topic ("Tips to Choose the Right Partner for a Threesome" ) : http://www.swingers.org/tips-to-choose-the-right-partner-for-a-threesome/